Clutter's
Side Effects
by Stephanie Roberts
Each
area of your home has a symbolic meaning with which you resonate on
a subconscious level. Clutter and untidiness within each of these
areas causes constriction and inertia in the corresponding aspects
of your life.
CLUTTER
IN THE KITCHEN
The kitchen has been called the "heart of the home," and
with good reason. Here we are nourished and provided for, even if
we are dining on a frozen entrée zapped in the microwave rather
than a homemade meal lovingly presented by Mom. An untidy and disorganized
kitchen makes it hard to nourish yourself and others, on both physical
and metaphysical levels. How you care for your kitchen is a clue about
whether you are giving proper attention to your own nourishment and
sources of abundance. Cleaning up and de-cluttering your kitchen opens
up space for you to receive the support and comfort that you need
in life.
LIVING
AND DINING ROOM CLUTTER
These are spaces where you mingle with and honor your relationships
with family and friends. Here you engage with the world while being
at home through watching television, reading the paper, or arguing
politics with old friends over dinner. Clutter can turn these social
spaces into dens of isolation, especially if the mess is so bad that
it has been years since you've invited people over. Look around your
living and dining rooms to see what they say about your relationship
with the rest of the world. Are you hiding your true self from others,
burying it in clutter, or putting it on display here?
CLUTTERED
HALLWAYS
Hallways are the arteries and highways of your home. Think of clutter
in your hallways as a traffic jam that prevents important connections
between different areas of your home and your life. Look at your hallways
to see how you feel about your life's path: are they well lit and
easily navigable, or do they trip you up? If you feel a disconnect
between work and family, self and others, what you need and your obligations,
it may be time to give your hallways a good clearing out.
BATHROOM
CLUTTER
Bathing and anointing the body is a preparatory ritual for many religious
rites both ancient and contemporary. On a daily basis we use this
space to prepare ourselves to meet the world. Clutter in the bathroom
can indicate a devaluation of self-worth, a lack of attention to self
that goes beyond the physical. A clean, well-decorated bathroom can
become a tranquil sanctuary for rejuvenation and self-care. Scented
soaps, attractive accessories, and fragrant candles have a place here.
Beautifying your bathroom by eliminating clutter and disorder and
transforming it into a place of refuge will bring a sense of the sacred
into your morning and evening personal-care rituals.
CLUTTER
IN THE BEDROOM
Adults' bedrooms are for sleeping and intimacy, and they should function
as places of renewal for self and relationships. Clutter in the bedroom
is enervating without being restful. If you feel "wired and tired,"
creating order out of chaos in this most personal space can help you
relax and let go of the stress of the day. Then you can get a good
night's sleep or enjoy some special time with your partner.
CLUTTERED
CLOSETS
Closets represent things that are hidden, unknown, or unrecognized.
When we fill our closets with clutter, we stifle our ability to be
intuitive and insightful. Cluttered closets can indicate problems
that you may not be consciously aware of but which impede your progress
through life, work, and relationships nonetheless. Keeping the closet
door closed is not an effective solution.
ATTIC
AND BASEMENT CLUTTER
A cluttered attic creates a feeling of being under pressure. It's
hard to feel optimistic about the future when there's so much stuff
"hanging over your head." Ancestor issues reside up there,
along with all those boxes and chests holding the detritus of generations.
And the basement and other below-ground storage areas are considered
abodes of the subconscious, so watch your step and get that clutter
cleaned up!
CLUTTER
IN YOUR GARAGE
Think of your car as a symbol of your mobility, independence, and
ability to be self-directed in life. If there's so much stuff piled
up in your garage that you can barely fit the car in there, you may
be hampered or overly cautious moving forward in life as well.
Stop
thinking of clutter-clearing as a tremendous chore, and start thinking
of it as one of the most effective self-improvement tactics available
to you. Every magazine and piece of paper you recycle, every book
you give to the library, every knick-knack and item of clothing you
release to a new owner creates space in your life for new insight,
energy, joy, and experiences to come in!
©
2003 Stephanie Roberts
[excerpted
from "Clutter-Free Forever!", Lotus Pond Press, 2003]
Stephanie
Roberts is the author of "Fast Feng Shui: 9 Simple Principles
for Transforming Your Life by Energizing Your Home", a #1 most
popular feng shui book at Amazon.com. Her new "Clutter-Free Forever!"
e-book and Home Coaching Program are now available at http://www.clutterfreeforever.com.